Golda Meir, Henry Kissinger & Jewish Identity
There is a well-known story about Israeli Prime Minister Golda Meir when she met with U.S. Secretary of State Henry Kissinger. Kissinger stated, “You must remember that first, I am an American; second, I am the Secretary of State, and third, I am a Jew.” To this, Golda responded, “Henry, you forget that in Israel, we read from right to left.”
Leopardology & Jewish Identity
Kivi Bernhard, an international keynote speaker and author of the highly acclaimed, “Leopardology- the Hunt For Profit In a Tough Global Economy”, was invited to deliver the opening address at a very important Microsoft conference. Hundreds of international figures key to Microsoft's business were slated to be there, including Bill Gates.
Dustin Hoffman & Jewish Identity
A couple of years ago, the “Finding Your Roots” series, hosted by Dr. Henry Louis Gates, filmed an interview with Dustin Hoffman. The series unearthed some incredible history about Dustin’s Jewish ancestors that brought the Oscar-winning actor to tears.
By delving into his family’s past, Hoffman came to realize the importance of his Jewish identity — something that he had been brought up to suppress.
The Power of Music
There are many forms of expressive communication. Words can articulate our thoughts and ideas, poetry creatively conveys our emotions, and music has the power to express and impact our inner soul.
While it is usually easier to speak about business, sports and politics, it may be more challenging to properly express our deepest and most personal feelings and emotions. At times we may find ourselves at a loss for words or speechless following an extraordinary experience. Music can reveal that which can not be articulated in words.
Cultivating Faith
According to The Wall Street Journal, recent polling data shows a "Surprising surge of faith among young people."
Research has repeatedly shown that people of faith report feeling better and healthier. Data illustrate the public-health benefits of faith. Women who attend religious services at least once a week are 68% less likely to die from “deaths of despair,” including suicide, drug overdose and alcohol poisoning. Men are 33% less likely, according to 2020 research led by Harvard University's School of Public Health.
Overcoming Cognitive Dissonance
Cognitive dissonance is something we may all experience from time to time. It is the feeling of discomfort which arises from holding contradictory thoughts, attitudes, or behaviors simultaneously.
This discomfort pushes us to either change our perspectives, attitudes, or behaviors to align with the new information or to seek consistency by rationalizing or justifying our contradictory beliefs or actions.
Decisions
Throughout the course of our day, we may be faced with many types of decisions ranging from relatively minor ones to more consequential and important choices.
Often, we may experience an inner conflict in any given situation as to what would be a wiser choice and generate long term benefits as opposed to just providing instant gratification.
The Power of Light
For many years in the 90's there was a small advertisement that ran every Friday on the bottom corner of the front page of the New York Times. It read, “Jewish Women: Shabbat candle lighting time this Friday is ____pm.” It not only served as a reminder of this eternal mitzvah, but it also expressed Jewish pride.
The advertisement ceased after the sponsor ended it, but it reappeared once.
On January 1, 2000, the NY Times ran a Millennium edition. It was a special issue that featured three front pages. One had the news from January 1, 1900. The second was the actual news of the day, January 1, 2000. And then they had a third front page, projecting future events of January 1, 2100.
A Little Bit of Light
Olga Fin shared the story of her mother's arrival at Auschwitz and how she would count the days until Shabbat. Every Friday, she crafted two small candles from the margarine she had saved and refrained from consuming. She also took some threads from the bottom of her dress and used them to ignite the candles.
"My mother encouraged all the other women in the barrack to do the same, and they all followed suit. As a result, the barrack was illuminated every Friday night with these candles. She never wavered in her faith, and even after the war, she maintained her connection to her Jewish identity and observance. She insisted that she survived solely because of her Shabbat candles," Olga recounted.
Shidduch
While the term Shidduch (matchmaking) can apply to multiple scenarios such as pairing someone up with a suitable job, roommate, or client, it is primarily associated with introducing a prospective girl and boy for marriage. The one who suggests a Shidduch is called a Shadchan (matchmaker).
Fake it till you make it
According to a recent study published in the journal Experimental Psychology, researchers found that smiling — even a fake smile — can have a positive impact on your mood.
Essentially, triggering certain facial muscles by smiling can “trick” your brain into thinking you're happy. When your muscles say you're happy, you're more likely to see the world around you in a positive way.
An Open Home
Have you ever registered for a free service only to learn later on about hidden costs or a requirement to upgrade to a premium package to fully benefit from the product?
In the context of subscription-based businesses, freemium is a business model where a company offers a version of its subscription service to all customers for free enabling them to help drive faster recurring revenue and profit growth than a paid-only model.
Social Conformity
How much of an influence does peer pressure have on the decisions and lifestyle choices we make?In the 1950s, Solomon Asch, a young Jewish immigrant from Poland, conducted a series of psychological experiments to figure it out. What later became famously known as the The Asch Conformity Experiments, Asch found that nearly 75% of the participants in the conformity experiments went along with the rest of the group at least one time. People were often willing to ignore reality and give an incorrect answer in order to conform to the rest of the group.
Stepping out of our Comfort Zone
Stepping out of our comfort zone is perhaps one of the most important lessons that we can implement while developing a business or an organization.
It is an essential part of developing a business or generating revenue yet it can not be taught in a classroom setting or through a virtual webinar. It must be tried and experienced first-hand through trial and error. The overwhelming positive results are generally unanticipated and often take us by surprise.
Remaining Nonpartisan
During the turbulent early 20th century, Rabbi Yosef Yitzchak Schneersohn (1880–1950), known as the Previous Rebbe, was once traveling by train to Petersburg. In his car were noblemen, clergy, and a group of Jewish students. Before long, a heated discussion arose on the topic of ideal systems of government.
Universal Mission
David Chase, a Holocaust survivor, businessman and philanthropist who led many important charitable efforts for Jewish communities around the globe, once shared an inspiring episode.Chase maintained the practice of praying in Tallit and Tefillin daily—even aboard airplanes and his personal yacht. In following the Talmudic dictum to face towards Jerusalem while praying, Chase regularly asked his captain, a non-Jew named Nick Winters, of the ship’s position and projected route.
The Antidote to Stress
Managing our stress level is a challenge we often face when trying to keep up with our daily responsibilities and commitments.
Maintaining a healthy balance between family, work, community and a connection to our heritage is essential to living a purposeful and meaningful life. But how can we properly dedicate ourselves to each of these aspects of our lives within the limited time we have without feeling overwhelmed? This quandary assumes even greater prominence during times like these when we are faced with uncertainty and unique challenges.
Lechaim- Are We Living or Existing?
“Lechaim (to Life)" is not just a nice slogan used when friends and family make a toast together during joyous occasions. Lechaim connotes a blessing and desire that we wish to focus more on living and less on just existing.
To exist means to consume space, resources, food and all other materialistic things that our physical existence depends on. To live, on the other hand, means to focus on the meaning and purpose of life. Instead of being motivated to work just to pay our bills, we strive to contribute to society, develop meaningful relationships with our families and friends, and make a positive difference for the people around us.
Israel, our home!
When Ben & Jerry's announced their plan to end sales of their products in certain parts of Israel, there was understandably a strong response from many in the Jewish community and from our friends in the United States and around the world.
Many people felt that Israel was being unfairly targeted and singled out for what they saw as a veiled form of anti-Semitism.
Three Types of Relationships
Men usually don't sit over coffee talking about their marriages. That's why a particular conversation between three males stuck in my mind — they were discussing the joys of wedded life.
"I love my wife," said David. "That's why I do everything she asks me to do. A few months ago she exclaimed, ‘David, I would really appreciate a new diamond necklace for my birthday’, and I make sure to purchase one for her next birthday.”